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\u00a0ALIGNMENT<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n Translated by:\u00a0\u00a0HAI DUC TRAN<\/strong><\/p>\n Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng chung c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c mu\u1ed1n l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c n\u00f3i C\u00d3 TH\u1ec2 v\u1edbi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111ang th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: \u201cCu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng chung c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng?\u201d<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n ho\u00e0 nho\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ea1i trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. Trong \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00f4i,ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do g\u00ec m\u00e0 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Theo c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Theo c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan s\u00e1t v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 cho th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i suy ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 sau khi cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c ly th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Do \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y. Qua nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng t\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebb lu\u1eadn ra\u00a0 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0:<\/p>\n C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 qua v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 c\u00f4 M c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn kh\u00e1c nhau sau khi \u0111i h\u01b0\u1edfng tu\u1ea7n tr\u0103ng m\u1eadt, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 m\u01b0\u1eddng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 cay \u0111\u1eafng \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u hi\u1ec7n ra v\u00e0 ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u1eefa \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng li\u00ean k\u1ebft c\u1ea3 n\u00fai nh\u1eefng r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Trong khi th\u1eadt hi\u1ebfm c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i n\u00e0o ngay sau khi h\u01b0\u1edfng tu\u1ea7n tr\u0103ng m\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 cay \u0111\u1eafng r\u1ed3i. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m r\u1eb1ng n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111ang b\u1ecb tan r\u00e3 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed1i \u0111e d\u1ecda \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0,\u00a0\u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 \u2013 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf thi\u00eang li\u00eang \u2013 Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a ma qu\u1ef7 v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 tr\u00e1 h\u00ecnh. L\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eed th\u00e1ch cho c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta, ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m theo c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i hay l\u00e0m theo c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. L\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eed th\u00e1ch c\u00e1i s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1i \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng qu\u1ed1c gia \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng con s\u1ed1 th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 M\u1ef9. Nh\u1eefng con s\u1ed1 th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea cho th\u1ea5y:<\/p>\n N\u0102M 1900: \u00a01 cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u00ec c\u00f3 12 cu\u1ed9c r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ly d\u1ecb.<\/p>\n 1922: \u00a01 cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u00ec c\u00f3 7 cu\u1ed9c r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ly d\u1ecb.<\/p>\n 1980:\u00a0 1 cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u00ec c\u00f3 3 cu\u1ed9c r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ly d\u1ecb.<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n (N\u0102M 2004: S\u1ed1 th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea c\u1ee7a M\u1ef9 l\u00e0 1 cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u00ec c\u00f3 12 cu\u1ed9c r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ly d\u1ecb. OKLAHOMA \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea3ng 71% r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ly d\u1ecb. (s\u1ed1 th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed5 sung sau n\u00e0y). M\u1ecdi cu\u1ed9c ly th\u00e2n hay ly d\u1ecb t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t v\u1ebft nh\u01a1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m m\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Tri\u1ec3n v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai nh\u00ecn c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u1ea3m \u0111\u1ea1m h\u01a1n. Nh\u1eefng con s\u1ed1 th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea tr\u00ean l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng v\u1ee5 ly d\u1ecb. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea ly th\u00e2n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u0103ng k\u00ed ly th\u00e2n, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng con s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ly th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u0103ng k\u00ed ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ai khi\u1ec3n tr\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 ly th\u00e2n nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn chung s\u1ed1ng d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t m\u00e1i nh\u00e0.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta g\u1ed9p c\u1ea3 hai nh\u00f3m n\u00e0y th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 c\u00f2n t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi 1:3<\/p>\n T\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y s\u1ed1c, nh\u01b0ng h\u01a1n th\u1ebf, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u1edbn nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng khu v\u1ef1c chi\u1ebfn tranh m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng, n\u01a1i m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1nh nhau, th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tr\u1eadn c\u00e3i v\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra nh\u01b0 c\u01a1m b\u1eefa.<\/p>\n Ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng con s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ed5 sung m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u1edbn nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 h\u1ed9 n\u01a1i m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c ng\u1eebng b\u1eafn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c duy tr\u00ec ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do gi\u1eddi \u01a1i nh\u01b0: m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch danh th\u1ec3, quan ni\u1ec7m x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, s\u1ef1 n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, l\u00fd do t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh hay l\u00fd do con tr\u1ebb. Nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ki\u1ec3u n\u00e0y c\u1ea5u th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. Thay v\u00ec m\u1ed9t g\u00f3c Thi\u00ean \u0111\u00e0ng tr\u00ean tr\u1ea7n gian, h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t g\u00f3c h\u1ecfa ng\u1ee5c gi\u1eefa tr\u1ea7n gian.<\/p>\n V\u00ec m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 chung ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3:<\/p>\n Do v\u1eady, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 g\u00ec v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 li\u00ean quan? Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, gi\u1ea3m 1\/3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ly h\u00f4n ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c. Th\u1ee9 hai, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang t\u00f4i b\u1ed5 sung ly th\u00e2n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u00ec con s\u1ed1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ed5 sung th\u00eam v\u00e0o c\u00e1i 1\/3 d\u00e8 d\u1eb7t. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2y, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 suy\u00a0 ra r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 1 \u0111\u1ea5u 3 th\u00f4i th\u00ec c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con s\u1ed1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n (Trong th\u1eddi gian bi\u00ean so\u1ea1n cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1992 t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea v\u1ec1 ly h\u00f4n \u1edf M\u1ef9 \u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ea1t 1:2. Con s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 ri\u00eang ly h\u00f4n!).<\/p>\n Suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 tr\u00ean, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 th\u1eadt quan tr\u1ecdng ph\u1ea3i nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn, b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 ch\u00eanh l\u1ec7nh v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u00e0 \u00edt h\u01a1n 1\/3. V\u00ec l\u00fd do n\u00e0y m\u00e0, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u00ean b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, v\u00e0 n\u00ean ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u2018ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p\u2019 \u00edt nh\u1ea5t cho t\u1edbi \u2018giai \u0111o\u1ea1n th\u1ee9 b\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u2013 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m, (xem ch\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7). \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc; s\u1ef1 suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i. Kh\u00f4ng n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u1ea3. M\u1ecdi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nho nh\u1ecf l\u00e0 do nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng kh\u00f3 nh\u1ecdc. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng r\u1eb1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n y\u00eau c\u1ea7u s\u1ef1 th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft. Khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 leo l\u00ean c\u00e1i thang ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p r\u1ed3i, ch\u00fang ta ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c kinh kh\u1ee7ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef n\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng may thay, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb7t n\u00f3 v\u00e0o c\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 say m\u00ea khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp t\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng r\u1ea5t h\u0103ng say \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00ec h\u1ecd hi v\u1ecdng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi m\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n Nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m chu \u0111\u00e1o v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u x\u1ed1i x\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 d\u00f2ng su\u1ed1i, n\u00f3 m\u1ea1nh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf trong th\u1eddi gian t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh g\u1eafn k\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n qua m\u1ed9t qu\u00e3ng nh\u1eefng n\u0103m d\u00e0i. Ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh \u00e2n hu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau t\u1eeb ph\u00eda ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng d\u00f9 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00e0n ph\u00e1 c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi gian l\u00e0m cho ta m\u00eat m\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n Con s\u1ed1 th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u1edf tr\u00ean l\u00e0 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean c\u00e1c B\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9. \u1ede nh\u1eefng n\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00e1c, ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng xu h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u00ean to\u00e0n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi th\u00ec r\u00f5 r\u1ed3i. Xu h\u01b0\u1edbng cho th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi x\u00f3i m\u00f2n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n Tuy v\u1eady nh\u1eefng s\u1ed1 th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ee5 ly h\u00f4n sau n\u00e0y c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u2026 T\u1ea1i sao v\u1eady? B\u1edfi v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n sao? \u2013 Kh\u00f4ng, n\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00ec ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u0103ng s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n, h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng k\u1ebft h\u00f4n. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, vi\u1ec7c chia tay c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh trong con s\u1ed1 th\u1ed1ng k\u1ebf v\u1ec1 ly h\u00f4n hay ly th\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 \u2018S\u1ed1ng th\u1eed\u2019 n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o, d\u1ec5 ch\u1ebft.<\/p>\n Cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n \u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ednh 7% ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef v\u00e0 6% nam gi\u1edbi n\u00f3i h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng k\u1ebft h\u00f4n n\u1eefa. Trong khi t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m tr\u00ean l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 quan, th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u1edbn n\u1eefa b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i m\u00e0 tr\u1ee5 c\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e3 tan v\u1ee1. Nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh; b\u1ea1n b\u00e8; quan \u0111i\u1ec3m x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 kh\u00e1c,ch\u00e1n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ea7n t\u1ee5c th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng. \u201cn\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau n\u00f3 n\u1eefa \u2013 b\u1ecf n\u00f3 \u0111i\u201d. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00e1p l\u1ef1c m\u1ea1nh ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, n\u1ebfu c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c ch\u1ea5p h\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c \u0111i nh\u00e0 th\u1edd. Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean ngay c\u1ea3 \u1edf vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y. Ph\u1ea3i c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng m\u00e0 n\u00f3i, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 r\u1eb1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 mi\u1ec5n vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ea7n gian \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 \u00e1c li\u1ec7t. Nh\u1eefng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u00e0m t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y thu\u1eadn ti\u1ec7n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi l\u1eddi th\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. L\u1eddi th\u1ec1: \u2026.\u201d Con.. c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef\/nam n\u00e0y l\u00e0m v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a con\u2026?\u201d \u2026. L\u1eddi h\u1ee9a tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e0n th\u1edd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u201cn\u1ebfu\u201d, \u201cnh\u01b0ng m\u00e0\u201d hay \u201ctheo ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch b\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh\u201d.<\/p>\n Tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh v\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0:<\/p>\n S\u1ef1 b\u1ed9i t\u00edn, s\u1ef1 cay \u0111\u1ed9c; s\u1ef1 o\u00e1n h\u1eadn; t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1ed5 b\u1ec7nh, mi\u1ec5n b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn, s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 im l\u1eb7ng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i. Nh\u1eefng t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 cho s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh an c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu hay quy\u1ec1n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n Th\u1eadt c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra l\u00fd do m\u00e0 l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1; v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 truy k\u00edch nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1t s\u1eafng. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 t\u00ecm ra nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0:<\/p>\n H\u1ecd nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00fd do. H\u1ecd v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan tr\u1ea7n th\u1ebf. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean h\u1ecd t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do \u201c\u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed9c\u201d. Nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y v\u00e0i l\u00fd do nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd v\u1eabn c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c n\u00fap \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m sao m\u00e0 b\u1ee9c tranh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u00e0 v\u1eady n\u00f3 c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf h\u1ecd. S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 b\u1ee9c tranh kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n. B\u1edfi b\u1ee9c tranh n\u00e0y bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a:<\/p>\n T\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac lu\u00f4n v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Ch\u00fang thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m ch\u1ee7 quan l\u1eabn kh\u00e1ch quan. Th\u1eddi c\u01a1 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i nh\u1ea1t v\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng g\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi th\u1eddi gian, v\u00e0 l\u00fd do \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u01b0 nhau. Ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1edbi m\u1ecdi l\u00fac. Do \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p m\u00e0 l\u00e0m n\u00ean k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfm xu\u1ec3 v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn r\u00f5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c to\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh b\u1ee9c tranh theo ngh\u0129a chi ti\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n B\u1ed5 sung th\u00eam v\u00e0o ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng, n\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a mu\u00f4n m\u00e0u mu\u00f4n v\u1ebb v\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1eefng m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta suy lu\u1eadn ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb d\u00ecm xu\u1ed1ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n do nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i. Ch\u1ec9 khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9, b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ti\u00eau \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 tranh c\u00e3i \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n S\u1ef1 x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee9c c\u1ea3m ta ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t ph\u00e9p lo\u1ea1i suy v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee9c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 so s\u00e1nh n\u00f3 v\u1edbi h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft d\u1ea1ng tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i video v\u00ec ch\u00fang c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1i \u0111\u00edch m\u00e0 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng xung quanh v\u00e0 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c thay \u0111\u1ed5i k\u00edch th\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh h\u00e0i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang gi\u1eefa \u201cb\u1ea1n b\u00e8\u201d v\u00e0 \u201ck\u1ebb \u0111\u1ecbch\u201d. M\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n l\u00e0m c\u00e1u ti\u1ebft. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u1ecb l\u00e0m cho \u0111i\u00ean ti\u1ebft, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i do s\u1ef1 c\u00e1u ti\u1ebft c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. V\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i, h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m cho s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y xem Kinh th\u00e1nh d\u1ea1y g\u00ec. Kinh th\u00e1nh d\u1ea1y ta r\u1eb1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 th\u00e1nh thi\u00eang. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa d\u00e0nh cho ngay khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp t\u1edbi. Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra n\u00f3 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. B\u1edfi \u00fd nguy\u1ec7n th\u00e1nh thi\u00eang c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa, Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 cho ph\u00e9p ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb sinh s\u1ea3n, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta quan s\u00e1t nhi\u1ec1u lo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c, th\u00ec th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, ngay c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng. H\u00e3y l\u1ea5y s\u00e2u b\u01b0\u1edbm l\u00e0m v\u00ed d\u1ee5: N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n cho m\u1ecdi v\u1eadt. Do v\u1eady ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 l\u00e0 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa, c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n Ma qu\u1ef7 th\u00ec lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 ph\u00e1 h\u1ee7y k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch n\u00e0y. \u0110\u00f4i khi nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a qu\u1ef7 c\u0169ng mang l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, trong khi \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn cho n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c th\u00ec qu\u1ef7 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n Cho d\u00f9 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i v\u1eadt, ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng Ch\u00faa thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp ra b\u00ed t\u00edch h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i v\u00e0 Ch\u00faa c\u0169ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n n\u0103ng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh n\u00f3.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ph\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y hai nh\u00f3m ch\u00ednh sau:<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u1ed8I L\u1ed6I L\u00c0 NGO\u1ea2NH M\u1eb6T \u0110I V\u1edaI C\u00d4NG TR\u00ccNH C\u1ee6A CH\u00daA.<\/strong><\/p>\n N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn c\u1eadn c\u1ea3nh chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 x\u1ea3o tr\u00e1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. S\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c to t\u00e1t nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u00e0 n\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd khi ch\u00fang \u0111ang th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1 h\u1ee7y. Tr\u00f2 gian tr\u00e1 trong chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e0y l\u00e0:<\/p>\n <\/p>\n TRONG KINH TH\u00c1NH\u00a0 E-PH\u00ca-S\u00d4 6: 10-17 CH\u00daNG TA \u0110\u1eccC:<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cSau c\u00f9ng, anh em h\u00e3y t\u00ecm s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh trong Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 trong uy l\u1ef1c to\u00e0n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong>(11)<\/sup><\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong>H\u00e3y mang to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 binh gi\u00e1p v\u0169 kh\u00ed c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng m\u01b0u ch\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a ma qu\u1ef7.<\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong>(12)<\/sup><\/strong>V\u00ec ch\u00fang ta chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1edbi ph\u00e0m nh\u00e2n, nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c th\u1ea7n thi\u00eang, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi t\u1ed1i t\u0103m n\u00e0y, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ea7n linh qu\u00e1i \u00e1c ch\u1ed1n tr\u1eddi cao.<\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong>(13)<\/sup><\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong>B\u1edfi \u0111\u00f3, anh em h\u00e3y nh\u1eadn l\u1ea5y to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 binh gi\u00e1p v\u0169 kh\u00ed c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa; nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, anh em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng to\u00e0n l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1eefng trong ng\u00e0y \u0111en t\u1ed1i.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n (14)<\/sup><\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong>V\u1eady h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1eefng: l\u01b0ng th\u1eaft \u0111ai l\u00e0 ch\u00e2n l\u00fd, m\u00ecnh m\u1eb7c \u00e1o gi\u00e1p l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh,<\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong>(15)<\/sup><\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong>ch\u00e2n \u0111i gi\u00e0y l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng h\u0103ng say loan b\u00e1o tin m\u1eebng b\u00ecnh an;<\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong>(16)<\/sup><\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong>h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7m khi\u00ean m\u1ed9c l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c tin, nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 anh em s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eadp t\u1eaft m\u1ecdi t\u00ean l\u1eeda c\u1ee7a \u00e1c th\u1ea7n.(17)<\/sup><\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong>Sau c\u00f9ng, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed9i m\u0169 chi\u1ebfn l\u00e0 \u01a1n c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 c\u1ea7m g\u01b0\u01a1m c\u1ee7a Th\u1ea7n Kh\u00ed ban cho, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 L\u1eddi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.\u201d\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n \u201cFINALLY, MY BRETHREN, BE STRONG IN THE LORD AND IN THE POWER OF \u2018HIS MIGHT\u2019.\u00a0 \u00a0PUT ON THE WHOLE ARMOUR OF GOD, THAT YOU MAY BE ABLE TO STAND AGAINST THE WILES OF THE DEVIL.\u00a0 \u00a0FOR WE DO NOT WRESTLE AGAINST FLESH AND BLOOD, BUT AGAINST PRINCIPALITIES, AGAINST POWERS, AGAINST THE RULER OF DARKNESS OF THIS AGE, AGAINST SPIRITUAL HOSTS OF WICKEDNESS IN HEAVENLY PLACES.\u00a0 \u00a0THEREFORE TAKE UP THE WHOLE ARMOUR OF GOD THAT YOU MAY BE ABLE TO WITHSTAND IN THE EVIL DAY, AND HAVING DONE ALL, TO STAND.\u00a0 \u00a0STAND THEREFORE, HAVING GIRDED YOUR WAIST WITH TRUTH, HAVING PUT ON THE BREASTPLATE OF RIGHTEOUSNESS.\u00a0 \u00a0AND HAVING SHOD YOUR FEET WITH THE PREPARATION OF THE GOSPEL OF PEACE.\u00a0 \u00a0ABOVE ALL, TAKING THE SHIELD OF FAITH WITH WHICH YOU WILL BE ABLE TO QUENCH ALL THE FIERY DARTS OF THE WICKED ONE.\u00a0 \u00a0AND TAKE THE HELMET OF SALVATION, AND THE SWORD OF THE SPIRIT, WHICH IS THE SWORD OF GOD.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n C<\/strong>h\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n ngu\u1ed3n xung \u0111\u1ed9t \u2013 s\u1ef1 h\u00e8n y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ma qu\u1ef7.<\/p>\n L\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i sai l\u1ea7m trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p l\u00e0 v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ngu\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb lung lay gi\u1eefa hai h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu n\u00e0y. Ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ee9c tranh v\u1ec1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 m\u00ea t\u00edn c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng v\u1ebd l\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ee9c tranh \u0111\u00f3. Do \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea3 hai con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 trung th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i. Khi ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m cho v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00e0ng leo thang. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tin v\u00e0o Ch\u00faa tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft v\u00e0 th\u1ec9nh c\u1ea7u c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c tin trong Ch\u00faa. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, s\u1ebd r\u01a1i v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed \u0111\u00fang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta sau \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ee3p l\u00fd c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o theo con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa qua vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc Kinh th\u00e1nh. Kinh th\u00e1nh c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eddi d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o trong m\u1ecdi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng tu d\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00f4ng v\u00e0o tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 th\u00f4i th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n Trong s\u1ed1 bao \u0111i\u1ec1u Kinh th\u00e1nh d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc l\u00e0 Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu hi\u1ec3u r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: \u201cTha th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 b\u1ecf qua\u201d.<\/p>\n B\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a qu\u1ef7 b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 b\u1ecf qua ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. S\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u1ecf qua b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang c\u00f2n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1eadp th\u1ec3. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u00f2a \u00e2m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec3 qu\u00e9t s\u1ea1ch nh\u1eefng \u201ct\u1ef7 s\u1ed1 c\u0169\u201d tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn th\u00eam n\u1eefa, do \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9 hay \u00edt nh\u1ea5t th\u00ec c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u201c\u0103n mi\u1ebfng tr\u1ea3 mi\u1ebfng\u201d, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng \u00edt m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh h\u01a1n, do v\u1eady ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 suy ngh\u0129 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u00e1ng gi\u00e1 nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3.<\/p>\n Ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean d\u00e0nh cho l\u1eddi d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o n\u00e0y v\u1ec1\u00a0 Tha th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 B\u1ecf qua m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t h\u01a1n b\u1edfi v\u00ec:<\/p>\n N\u00f3 c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 tha th\u1ee9 nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n \u00a0kh\u00f3 h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecf qua. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng , ch\u00fang ta t\u1eadp h\u1ee3p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn n\u00e0y l\u00e0m ch\u00fang ta r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i, ch\u00fang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n v\u00f4 t\u00edch s\u1ef1 trong c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 trong quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. C\u00e1i t\u1eeb \u201cs\u1ef1 o\u00e1n h\u1eadn\u201d th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng trong v\u1ed1n t\u1eeb c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u1eeb th\u1ebf n\u00e0o r\u1ed3i nh\u01b0ng h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u g\u1ed1c r\u1ec5 c\u1ee7a t\u1eeb ng\u1eef. \u201cS\u1ef1 o\u00e1n h\u1eadn\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gh\u00e9p t\u1eeb hai t\u1eeb ng\u1eef, \u201cRE\u201d c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u201cl\u1ea1i\u201d (again) v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u201ct\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d (sentiment) c\u00f3 ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb \u201ct\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d (sentment). T\u1eeb t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m n\u00f3 bao h\u00e0m to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb \u201cs\u1ef1 o\u00e1n h\u1eadn\u201d n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn. Do v\u1eady khi ch\u00fang k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u2013 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 \u0111au \u0111\u01a1n. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh n\u00f3 l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n b\u1edfi ch\u00fang ta nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c c\u0169 \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra. Trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u0169 do ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c g\u00e2y ra hay vi\u1ec7c r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u201cb\u1ecf qua\u201d \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i ra, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn \u2013 ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb ch\u1eb7n l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn m\u00e3i m\u00e3i b\u1edfi ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i \u0111ang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0\u00a0C\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p h\u00e0n g\u1eafn trong t\u1eadn th\u00e2m t\u00e2m.<\/strong>S\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n do nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00f2ng, v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, hay nh\u1eefng k\u00ed \u1ee9c \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn. Nhi\u1ec1u kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5m v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng v\u00f9ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c, n\u1eeda \u00fd th\u1ee9c hay ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o d\u0129 v\u00e3ng m\u00e0 ta l\u00e2u r\u1ed3i kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb ch\u00fang n\u1eefa. Nh\u1eefng ch\u1eb3ng m\u00e0ng g\u00ec s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e2u ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o hay b\u1ecb l\u00e3ng qu\u00ean ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o trong k\u00ed \u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Trong khi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 t\u1eeb th\u1eddi ni\u00ean thi\u1ebfu v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 t\u1eeb khi \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 c\u00f2n trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 ngo\u00e0i \u00fd mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u00e0 n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mong \u0111\u1ee3i. N\u00f3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf n\u00e0y; N\u00f3 th\u1eadt v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb ph\u1ea3i mang n\u00f3. Sau \u0111\u00f3, trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c n\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u00f4i ra nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u201ctua l\u1ea1i\u201d trong c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y hay c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n Nh\u1eefng k\u00ed \u1ee9c v\u1ec1 v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00f2ng l\u00e0 l\u00fd do m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng xung \u0111\u1ed9t h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. C\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft h\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u1eadn trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n.<\/p>\n C\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang v\u00ec m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft k\u1ecbp v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng tin quanh ta. Ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 khi m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi t\u00ecm ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n ch\u1ec9 kho\u1ea3ng 1 n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n T\u00f4i ng\u1edd r\u1eb1ng\u00a0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u1ec1 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n do v\u1eady t\u00f4i s\u1ebd t\u00f3m t\u1eaft ra \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0i t\u1eeb v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. Th\u1eadt hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, t\u00f4i cung c\u1ea5p cho b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n\u00a0 b\u1ed1 tr\u00ed h\u1ee3p l\u00fd n\u00f3 v\u00e0 mong s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0n g\u1eafn. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a\u00a0 b\u1ea1n \u01b0\u1edbc mong\u00a0 kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i \u0111au n\u1eefa. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n khi kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00f3 (s\u1ef1 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn),h\u1ecd c\u1ee9 b\u00e1m ch\u1eb7t l\u1ea5y n\u00f3. H\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n\u00a0 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a\u00a0 ai \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang b\u1ecb r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i b\u1ed9c b\u1ea1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u1ee9 b\u00e1m ch\u1eb7t l\u1ea5y n\u00f3. H\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ai kh\u00e1c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang b\u1ecb r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ed9c b\u1ea1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn c\u1ee7a anh\/ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y ra v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o tha th\u1ee9 cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m d\u1ee9t \u0111i\u1ec3m, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i t\u00ean \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u1edf b\u1ea5t k\u00ec n\u01a1i n\u00e0o. C\u00f9ng l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tha th\u1ee9 cho anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m do h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u201cNh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c\u201d\u00a0 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t. Do \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 t\u00e1ch ra. C\u00e1i ly khai n\u00e0y ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1edfi nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ebft trong\u00a0M\u00e1t th\u00eau 18:20<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0Matthew 18:20<\/strong>,\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cV\u00ec \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 hai ba ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdp l\u1ea1i nh\u00e2n danh Th\u1ea7y, th\u00ec c\u00f3 Th\u1ea7y \u1edf \u0111\u1ea5y, gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n \u00a0\u201cFOR WHERE TWO OR THREE ARE GATHERED TOGETHER IN MY NAME, I AM THERE IN THE MIDST OF THEM.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n V\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f3m l\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ednh n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 n\u00e0o. Qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 qu\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ec9 day d\u1ee9t, m\u00e0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho \u2018s\u1ef1 o\u00e1n h\u1eadn\u2019 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ee1 b\u1ecf. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 ngo\u00e0i s\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 o\u00e1n h\u1eadn \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ee1 b\u1ecf th\u00ec \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn c\u0169ng bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 v\u1ee5 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ch\u1ec9 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t kinh nghi\u1ec7m. Vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0n g\u1eafn (ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb) n\u00e0y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea9y n\u00e3o, s\u1ef1 x\u00f3a b\u1ecf \u0111i\u1ec7n c\u1ee9c v\u00e0 d\u00f9ng l\u00e0m thu\u1ed1c gi\u1ea3m \u0111au c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc. Kh\u00f4ng mang l\u1ea1i t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng hay l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec5u lo\u1ea1n tr\u00ed \u00f3c hay th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n cho th\u00eam s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn c\u1ee7a anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u1eefa v\u00e0 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa \u00f4m l\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o l\u00e0 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m. N\u00f3 gi\u00fap cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i y\u00eau (v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng cho nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do).<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i t\u00f3m l\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u1ee3i th\u1ebf v\u00e0o trong m\u1ed9t n\u1ed9i dung th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n <\/p>\n C\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n \u0111ang b\u0103n kho\u0103n r\u1eb1ng t\u1eeb x\u01b0a t\u1edbi nay ch\u01b0a ai n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 \u201ch\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n\u201d. L\u00fd do l\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n th\u00ec thi\u1ebfu nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean. Linh m\u1ee5c c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng phong ph\u00fa t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c d\u00e2ng l\u1ec5 v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n trong ng\u00e0y cho t\u1edbi l\u00e0m ph\u00e9p r\u1eeda cho con tr\u1ebb, l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi, l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 tang, \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea1i m\u1ed3 c\u00f4i, th\u0103m b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t danh s\u00e1ch d\u00e0i d\u00e0i v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd ch\u1ec9 trong v\u00f2ng 24 ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 trong ng\u00e0y. Linh m\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. Do v\u1eady, ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n c\u00f9ng gi\u00fap linh m\u1ee5c trong nh\u1eefng nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 \u0111a d\u1ea1ng, c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ea1o ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0n g\u1eafn \u2018xa x\u1ec9\u2019. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai c\u00f3 thi\u00ean h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 n\u00e0y th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Anh\/ch\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ea1o h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u1eeb quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, tuy nhi\u00ean anh\/ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1eafng nghe t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. H\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i h\u00e0o ph\u00f3ng v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t th\u1eddi gian b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1eddi gian kha kh\u00e1. Kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc, m\u1ed9t quy tr\u00ecnh. \u0110au kh\u1ed5 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n t\u1ea1o, h\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n th\u00ec nhanh hon. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t ph\u00fat hay hai ph\u00fat li\u00ean ti\u1ebfp c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3. T\u00f9y v\u00e0o ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 th\u1eddi gian, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ly t\u00e1n h\u00e0n g\u1eafn \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh th\u00ec m\u1ea5t kho\u1ea3ng m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3. Vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u2018vi\u1ec7c v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng\u2019. R\u00fat cu\u1ed9c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p h\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 th\u1edd v\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n n\u00ean h\u1ecfi h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m \u201cCatholic Charismatic Renewal\u201d \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u (t\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch, \u0110\u1ed5i m\u1edbi quy\u1ec1n n\u0103ng c\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o). Nh\u00f3m n\u00e0y gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u01a1i n\u00e0o c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng nghi\u00eap h\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, c\u00e1i m\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 Ph\u00e9p H\u00f2a Gi\u1ea3i. Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o bu\u1ed9c x\u01b0ng t\u1ed9i (h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i) \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t n\u0103m trong m\u00f9a Ph\u1ee5c sinh. Tuy nhi\u00ean Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i c\u0169ng khuy\u00ean r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u00edch l\u1ee3i khi vi\u1ec7c x\u01b0ng t\u1ed9i c\u00e0ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u00e0ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 Linh m\u1ee5c m\u1edbi th\u1ee9c hi\u1ec7n vi\u1ec7c h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i n\u00e0y. Trong gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 linh m\u1ee5c m\u1edbi c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n tha t\u1ed9i qua quy\u1ec1n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa. Xin ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh l\u01b0u \u00fd \u2013 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 linh m\u1ee5c m\u1edbi c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n tha t\u1ed9i. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n l\u00e0 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n do m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 linh m\u1ee5c. Cho l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i t\u1ed9i hay h\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng b\u00ed m\u1eadt v\u00e0 m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt \u0111\u00fang cho h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ef1 h\u1ea1 m\u00ecnh n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 mang l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i \u0111\u1ebfn kinh ng\u1ea1c. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n H\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n v\u00e0 ph\u00e9p h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00e0 t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u mang l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t. Th\u1eadt h\u1eefu \u00edch khi bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u01a1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. B\u1edfi ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n m\u1ecdi h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng cho m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 cho ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n Vi\u1ec7c h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n t\u1edbi Ch\u00faa qua linh m\u1ee5c. Vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0n g\u1eafn c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n th\u00f4ng qua m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n b\u1edfi ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111ang th\u1ec9nh c\u1ea7u Ch\u00faa gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta qu\u00ean \u0111i nh\u1eefng k\u00ed \u1ee9c \u0111au bu\u1ed3n, b\u1edfi h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i v\u00e0 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n do Ch\u00faa, nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a linh m\u1ee5c hay c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 c\u00f9ng \u0111i theo \u0111\u00fang Kinh th\u00e1nh, Ch\u00faa s\u1ebd gi\u00fap h\u1ecd v\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec9nh. \u0110\u1ee9c tin trong Ch\u00faa c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng- t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 \u2013 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y l\u00e0 minh ch\u1ee9ng.<\/p>\n TI\u1ebeP THEO L\u00c0 NH\u1eeeNG D\u00d2NG D\u00c0NH CHO NH\u1eeeNG \u0110\u1eccC GI\u1ea2 KIT\u00d4 H\u1eeeU <\/strong><\/p>\n KINH TH\u00c1NH D\u1ea0Y CH\u00daNG TA R\u1eb0NG KH\u00d4NG \u0110\u01af\u1ee2C K\u1ebeT H\u00d4N V\u1edaI\u00a0 M\u1ed8T NG\u01af\u1edcI KH\u00d4NG C\u00d9NG T\u00d4N GI\u00c1O<\/strong><\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ec3 tu\u00e2n theo hay \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh. Mong \u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c th\u00f4i th\u00fac r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng th\u00ec \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t. Kinh th\u00e1nh \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ed1 tr\u00ed m\u1ed9t k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cho s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n v\u1edbi n\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn. Mang l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed9c tranh c\u00e3i \u0111a d\u1ea1ng. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng th\u00ec Kinh th\u00e1nh kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m b\u1edfi n\u00f3 ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa. Trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ng\u00e0y nay, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u00f3 nh\u1ecdc; Sau h\u1ebft, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00e1c nhau. H\u00e0ng x\u00f3m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00e1c. T\u1ea1i n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00e1c nhau, v\u00e0 d\u0129 nhi\u00ean n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng nhau.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 sai khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00e1c nhau. M\u1ecdi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec1u hi\u00eang li\u00eang. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00fang khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta k\u1ebft h\u00f4n trong c\u00f9ng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd.<\/strong>Kinh th\u00e1nh v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft nh\u01b0\u00a0 sau:<\/p>\n \u201cAnh em \u0111\u1eebng mang chung m\u1ed9t \u00e1ch v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng tin. Th\u1eadt th\u1ebf, l\u00e0m sao s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh l\u1ea1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh? L\u00e0m sao \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng l\u1ea1i dung h\u00f2a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i?\u201d \u00a02 C\u00d4RINT\u00d4.6:14-15\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n \u201cDO NOT BE UNEQUALLY YOKED TOGETHER WITH AN UNBELIEVER.\u00a0 \u00a0FOR WHAT FELLOWSHIP HAS RIGHTEOUSNESS WITH LAWLESSNESS? AND WHAT COMMUNION HAS LIGHT WITH DARKNESS? AND WHAT ACCORD HAS CHRIST WITH BELIAL? OR WHAT PART HAS A BELIEVER WITH AN UNBELIEVER?\u201d . \u00a02 Corinthians. 6:14-15<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb c\u1ee7a Th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 (Paul) khi ng\u00e0i vi\u1ebft \u00a0th\u01b0 g\u1eedi cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi Corin. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ecdn t\u1eeb th\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i \u0111ang \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m. Tuy th\u1ebf m\u00e0 c\u00e1i h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u v\u0103n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng cho ng\u00e0y nay. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 th\u1eed ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n \u0110\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf n\u00f3. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00e1c nhau. Ch\u00faa t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 cho ph\u00e9p t\u00edch \u0111a d\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. H\u01a1n th\u1ebf, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn n\u00e0o. Ch\u00faa ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eb1ng t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1eb1ng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o n\u00e0o h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra. N\u1ebfu Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 cho ph\u00e9p nh\u1eefng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00e1c nhau, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ecb th\u1ebf g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 \u0111a d\u1ea1ng v\u1ec1 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. Quan \u0111i\u1ec3m l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n theo l\u1ee3i \u00edch h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n trong khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd. N\u00f3i chung, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u00f9ng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o th\u00ec \u00edt b\u1ecb \u0111au \u0111\u1ea7u khi so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111a t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o.<\/strong><\/p>\n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f9ng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0 h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 \u0111i. \u0110i\u1ec1u ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb3ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n k\u1ebft h\u00f4n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau s\u1eafp c\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 tr\u00e1i tim b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 d\u00e0nh cho anh \u1ea5y (c\u00f4 \u1ea5y) m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady.<\/p>\n H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 li\u00ean k\u1ebft ba b\u00ean gi\u1eefa Ch\u00faa, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00a0<\/strong>Trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o vi\u1ec7c r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c n\u00e0y v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu Kit\u00f4 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n nhau h\u01a1n. Trong cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u00f4 h\u1ee3p, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 h\u1ed7n lo\u1ea1n v\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 k\u1ebft c\u1ee5c b\u1ea5t an v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a k\u1ecbch li\u1ec7t. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 tr\u00f3i bu\u1ed9c v\u00e0 theo c\u00e1ch \u1ea5y b\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh th\u00edch ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u00fd ki\u1ebfn kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu n\u00e0y. H\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n r\u1ea5t r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 khu\u1ebfch \u0111\u1ea1i th\u00eam v\u00ec ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf t\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n h\u00e3y ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c v\u00e0 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f9ng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 t\u00e2m v\u1edbi \u00fd nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 Ch\u00faa s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i gi\u00e1ng nh\u1eefng th\u1eed th\u00e1ch tr\u00ean b\u1ea1n cho t\u1edbi khi b\u1ea1n quy ph\u1ee5c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u00fd nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f9ng Kit\u00f4 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa. Sau c\u00f9ng Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i sai con m\u1ed9t Ch\u00faa xu\u1ed1ng th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u chu\u1ed9c t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft tr\u00ean th\u1eadp gi\u00e1. Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m v\u1eady b\u1edfi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chu\u1ed9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ebft t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea1m. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu Kit\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m. Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 mang s\u1ef1 c\u1ee9u chu\u1ed9c cho to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u00cdt nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y l\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 l\u00e0 Ch\u00faa, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 chu\u1ed9c t\u1ed9i ch\u00fang ta. V\u00e0 t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt v\u00e0 ngay th\u1eb3ng. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn r\u1eb1ng k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng Kit\u00f4 l\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 mang ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa. Tuy nhi\u00ean, Ch\u00faa kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh d\u00f9ng cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5 v\u00e0o nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c truy\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o. \u0110\u00f4i khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00f4i k\u00e9o m\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a l\u00e0m ch\u00f4n v\u00f9i b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f9ng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, th\u00ec v\u1eabn c\u00f2n hy v\u1ecdng. B\u1ea1n n\u00ean l\u1eadp m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i t\u1ed9i b\u1ea5t ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh (hay kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft) v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa. \u201cS\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft\u201d trong c\u00e2u v\u0103n n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 \u0111\u00e2u. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n l\u00e0 l\u1eddi bi\u1ec7n b\u1ea1ch m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m , kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00f4ng tin cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta, m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u00edch l\u00e0m. V\u00ed d\u1ee5: N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta tr\u00e1nh xa l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc gi\u00e1o l\u00fd hay \u0111i nh\u00e0 th\u1edd hay \u0111\u1ecdc Kinh th\u00e1nh hay t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn. Sau \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta hy v\u1ecdng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1i s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec, nh\u01b0ng l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 ch\u00fang ta s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ec3 coi l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n \u0111ang b\u0103n kho\u0103n l\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eadp m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch sau:<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n N\u1ebeU B\u1ea0N TH\u1ef0C S\u1ef0 CH\u01afA C\u00d3 QUY\u1ebeT\u00a0 \u0110\u1ecaNH , SAO\u00a0 KH\u00d4NG QUY\u1ebeT \u0110\u1ecaNH NGAY B\u00c2Y GI\u1edc, H\u00c3Y D\u00c0NH CHO H\u00d4N NH\u00c2N C\u01a0 H\u1ed8I TH\u00c0NH C\u00d4NG.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n ==============================\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n 7. \u00a0TOGETHERNESS<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n Is life together possible?<\/span><\/p>\n This question produces mixed and opposite reactions. The people who are eager to get married will immediately say YES to this question, they would actually find the question inconceivable. On the other hand there are a vast number of people who are seriously asking the question, \u201cIs life together possible?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n For me, before I got married, wedding was a normal sequence in the course of life’s florid train of events. It seemed to be an understood milestone. In my mind, there was no doubt that two people could live together. My own thinking, my Christian out look and observations of my own parent\u2019s marriage gave this thinking credence.<\/span><\/p>\n Now after my own marriage difficulties and the marriage separations of friends, I was forced to re-examine this question. Over the period of time I am convinced of two things:<\/span><\/p>\n A lot depending on the experiences we make and the expectations we have. For example, Mrs. M had other opinions, after the honeymoon, Marriage was just not what she imagined it to be. Disappointment and bitterness began to emerge and already another marital union was ready to join the vast mountain of troubled marriages. While it is rare for disappointment and bitterness to emerge so soon after the honeymoon, it is certainly not impossible.<\/span><\/p>\n Social Psychologists are of the opinion that the very foundation of a stable family home life, is disintegrating and the very institution of marriage seems to stand in danger of crumbling. The fact is, Matrimony cannot crumble \u2013 It is a Divine institution – God is the Author<\/strong>. What it will face is, however, are attacks from the devil in all forms and disguises. It will challenge us as individuals, to do things our way and fail, or to do it God\u2019s way and succeed. It will challenge our alacrity to use our WILL<\/strong> with the Wisdom of God <\/strong>rather than that of man.<\/span><\/p>\n One of the countries that have publicly available statistics on this subject is the USA.<\/span><\/p>\n The statistics revealed:<\/span><\/p>\n In 1900: 1 marriage in 12 landed in a divorce.<\/span><\/p>\n In 1922: 1 marriage in 7 landed in a divorce.<\/span><\/p>\n In 1980: 1 marriage in 3 landed in a divorce.<\/span><\/p>\n (In 2004: The US statistics is 1 marriage out of 2 landed in divorce. Oklahoma is said to top the list with 71% landing in divorce. (This data was added later in 1992))<\/span><\/p>\n Every marriage separation or divorce produces emotional scars, which have an effect on future generations. The prospects for the future look even more distressing. Note the statistics mentioned above are for divorce. These figures are possible because there is civil census for divorce. There are separate statistics for registered separation but these figures are incomplete, because not all cases are officially registered. There are however, no censuses on marriage where the spouses have separated relationship but live under the same roof.<\/span><\/p>\n If we take these two groups of problems relationships, we see that the ratio is much worse than 1:3.<\/span><\/p>\n This ratio is shocking enough, but in addition, there are a vast number of households that are openly recognized war zones. Where, fights, defiance and shouting matches are a regular occurrence.<\/span><\/p>\n To these figures we can add the vast number of households where a truce is maintained just for the sake of some worldly reason like: for the sake of prestige, social image, reputation, financial reason or for the sake of the kids. These marriages constitute disturbed relationships. Instead of being a piece of heaven on earth, they are a piece of hell on earth.<\/span><\/p>\n For the sake of an overview to problem marriage we have:<\/span><\/p>\n So what do we have here as far as the ratios are concerned? Firstly, one third falls off under the officially divorces cases. Secondly, if we add separated marriage and disturbed marriages, the figure can conservatively add up to another third. From this, we can infer that only one marriage out of three is likely to be a happy one.<\/span><\/p>\n (At the time of compiling this book in 1992 the Static rate for divorce in the USA is estimated to reach one marriage out of two. This ratio is for divorce alone!)<\/span><\/p>\n Considering the above ratios, I think it is important to look at marriage carefully, because the odds of a happy and successful marriage are less than one third. It is for this reason, reading about marriage should begin before marriage, and should continue like a, \u2018process\u2019 at least till \u2018The Fourth Stage has stabilized \u2013 The communion Stage, (See Chapter on Relationship). This will involve reading, thinking and re-thinking. Nowhere can anything be left for granted. Every little success is by hard won efforts. We must be clear that marriage demands careful and constant attention, otherwise it will die. When it comes to our careers and climbing up the professional ladder, we are clear and we make serious efforts to keep up. Unfortunately we often do not put in the same zest when it concerns our marriage. Most people try very hard to keep up the efforts of the career because they hope to provide a good standard of living and achieve happiness for the family through this.<\/span><\/p>\n But the so-called good standard of living and good things are no replacement to careful and constant attention. Even the torrential starting love that was so strong during the courtship hasn\u2019t sufficient adherence force to look after a marriage over a prolonged period of years. Constant Grace of God and Love from our side can overcome the strains of life and the ravages of time induced fatigue.<\/span><\/p>\n The statistics mentioned above are based on US state of affairs. In other countries these figures will be different, but the tendency worldwide is clear. The tendency shows a worldwide erosion of marriages.<\/span><\/p>\n The latest divorce statistics however tend to show an improvement. Why? Is it because people are able to get on better? \u00ad No, it is simply because there is an ever increasing number of couples who are living together but who are not married. Hence, their going apart cannot be reflected in either the divorce statistics or the separated statistics. Marriage is commitment to each other. These, \u2018Living Together\u2019, relationships are a type of insufficient and insecure relationship, with a handy exit passage.<\/span><\/p>\n At interviews an estimate of 7% of women and 6% of men said they would not marry the same person. Many said that they would not marry again. While the above percentages are subjective feelings, the fact remains that there are ample number of external influences that support break-up. Influences like the opinion of family; friends; the opinion of society, the example of others. The humdrum of the worldly influences seem to say, \u201cIf you can’t love it \u00ad leave it.\u201d This is a strong pressure to cope up with. Christians often tend to feel secure in their marriages, if they both have been dutiful to their church going. There are surprises even here. So in all fairness it is important to point out, for those of us who are Christians, we must be aware that Christian Marriage are not immune to marital disharmony, and the pressures of the world will be just as intense. These pressures and opinions will poise themselves very conveniently, as an easy exit from the wedding vows. The wedding vow: . . \u201cDo you (Name) take this woman \/ this man to be your lawfully wedded wife \/ husband for rich or for poor, in health or in sickness, in good times or in bad times?\u201d . . .<\/strong>The promise at the altar does not have any, \u201cIfs\u201d, \u201cbuts\u201d or, \u201cback doors.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n The typical SYMPTOMS of a sick and unhappy marriage are:<\/span><\/p>\n Infidelity, bitterness; resentment; drop in affection, cutting comments, criticisms and prolonged silence. These characteristics are a poor advertisement for the peace of Jesus Christ or His Power in our Life.<\/span><\/p>\n It is necessary to search for the reason, which causes the break-up; and a lot of people try to pursue this cause earnestly. Some who find the exact cause may arrive at the following finding:<\/span><\/p>\n They find it difficult to pin point the reason. They use a lot of worldly wisdom. They first of all look for a \u201csingle\u201d reason. They find some reasons but there still seems to be something else lurking somewhere. Somehow, the picture does not seem complete. And this baffles them. It is true the picture is not complete. Because this picture involves the feeling and emotions of:<\/span><\/p>\n Emotions and feelings are dynamic and are subject to change. They change either by a subjective or objective outlook. Time has an effect. Often things fade and become insignificant with time and yet the opposite is equally possible. We are always facing new influences and consequently our marital problems are also encountering new influences all the time. So the combinations that result because of all these influences are simply innumerable and we cannot see the whole picture in its fullest details.<\/span><\/p>\n Added to the large number of influences, is also the variety of hues of meaning and importance that, we assign to the intensity levels of the influence.<\/span><\/p>\n Sometimes when we reason purely with our human intellect, we could be over whelmed by the unpleasant changes and re-changes. Just when you feel you have made progress, you find that the focus of contention has changed.<\/span><\/p>\n The confusion in this phase is extremely complex to understand. If we try to make an analogy of the complexity of all factors in marriage, we can compare it almost to some kind of a Video Game where there are many targets, which are constantly moving around and are constantly changing their size and status between ‘Friend\u2019 and ‘Foe’. A game like this can be quite exasperating, but that is how many married couple feel about their problem relationship. They are quite exasperated, and they react out of their exasperation. In the bargain, they often make things worse for themselves and their spouse.<\/span><\/p>\n Let us see what the Bible tells us. It tells us that marriage and family are a divine institution. In fact, it is the first institution forwarded by God as far as mankind is concerned. He designed it as necessary for the human race. By His divine will He allowed man and woman to be pro-creators. If we look at many other species of living beings the institution of marriage is not necessary, even parental care and upbringing may not apply. Take the caterpillar for instance; it has no family ties with its mother. We cannot fully understand God’s reasons for everything He has done, so we have to assume that it is God’s plan, the way He designed human marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n The devil is constantly trying to disrupt this plan. Sometime his attempts bring him success, while it brings sufferings to the victims. If we lower our guard, the devil makes his move.<\/span><\/p>\n In spite of the many obstacles, we should at all times remember that God founded the institutions of marriage and He also has the power to make it work.<\/span><\/p>\n If we try to categorize marriage conflicts, they will fall into two major groups:<\/span><\/p>\n SIN IS TURNING AWAY FROM GOD’S PLAN.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n If we look closely at the strategy, we see how cunning it is. The mere fact that it does not attract attention towards itself is in effect, an indication of its purposefulness towards destruction. The trick in this strategy is:<\/span><\/p>\n In the Bible Ephesians 6: 10-17<\/strong><\/span> we read:<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cFINALLY, MY BRETHREN, BE STRONG IN THE LORD AND IN THE POWER OF ‘HIS MIGHT’. PUT ON THE WHOLE ARMOUR OF GOD, THAT YOU MAY BE ABLE TO STAND AGAINST THE WILES OF THE DEVIL. FOR WE DO NOT WRESTLE AGAINST FLESH AND BLOOD, BUT AGAINST PRINCIPALITIES, AGAINST POWERS, AGAINST THE RULER OF DARKNESS OF THIS AGE, AGAINST SPIRITUAL HOSTS OF WICKEDNESS IN HEAVENLY PLACES. THEREFORE TAKE UP THE WHOLE ARMOUR OF GOD THAT YOU MAY BE ABLE TO WITHSTAND IN THE EVIL DAY, AND HAVING DONE ALL, TO STAND. STAND THEREFORE, HAVING GIRDED YOUR WAIST WITH TRUTH, HAVING PUT ON THE BREASTPLATE OF RIGHTEOUSNESS. AND HAVING SHOD YOUR FEET WITH THE PREPARATION OF THE GOSPEL OF PEACE. ABOVE ALL, TAKING THE SHIELD OF FAITH WITH WHICH YOU WILL BE ABLE TO QUENCH ALL THE FIERY DARTS OF THE WICKED ONE. AND TAKE THE HELMET OF SALVATION, AND THE SWORD OF THE SPIRIT, WHICH IS THE SWORD OF GOD.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n Aufruf zum Kampf<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n
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\n designed not to draw attention to its self<\/strong>. In fact they make the people seek solutions elsewhere. The initial strategy of this disruption seems to impart relief, joy, well being and satisfaction. It produces a feeling of freedom from the troublesome spouse. It works almost exclusively through human weaknesses. It could be through the weaknesses of self or others. The devil is a master in deception. He achieves his ends by making the person concerned, to turn to sin. It is for this reason that people in a marriage conflict turn towards anger, fighting, bitterness, resentment, infidelity. They may also turn either to self- destruction or to the destruction of others. The end effect is sin, and his aim is to make human being sin. And what is Sin?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n